Why I Created RECLAIM
My Journey to Becoming a Recovery Coach
A personal story of transformation, struggle, and finding freedom from digital addiction.
The Façade of Success
On the outside: high performer, driven professional, happily married, ambitious goals.
On the inside: carrying a hidden weight that no one could see.
I lived a double life – meeting expectations publicly while battling digital addictions privately.
The performance pressure became overwhelming, creating a cycle of achievement and secret pain.
The Hidden Struggle
Distraction
Escaping through porn, escorts, overwork, and endless scrolling – anything to avoid uncomfortable emotions
Shame
Drowning in secrecy, self-judgment, and the fear of being discovered
Numbing
Using digital stimulation to avoid confronting the growing emptiness inside
Repeat
Trapped in behavioral patterns that I normalized but couldn't control
This wasn't just bad habits – it was emotional avoidance masked as "normal digital use."
The Breaking Point
"I realized I might lose everything. And I knew I couldn't do this alone anymore."
It wasn't a single moment, but a painful reckoning. My relationship was crumbling. My self-respect had vanished. The walls I'd built between my two lives were collapsing.
I had to make a choice: continue hiding or step into the uncertainty of healing.
The Recovery Journey
Professional Support
Individual therapy to address trauma roots
Specialized coaching for digital addiction
Community Connection
Recovery groups that eliminated isolation
Authentic relationships that provided accountability
Daily Systems
Structured routines that reinforced recovery
Habit tracking that built momentum
Recovery wasn't about willpower – it was about building systems that supported healing.
Creating RECLAIM
I created RECLAIM because I needed more than generic advice – I needed a structured, trauma-aware roadmap specifically designed for digital addiction.
"I created the program I wish I had when I was stuck."
RECLAIM isn't just coaching – it's a comprehensive system built on honesty, accountability, practical tools, and genuine hope.
What RECLAIM Offers
1
Starter Program
4 intensive sessions to break initial patterns
Digital guardrails and immediate crisis support
2
Foundation Program
12 sessions focused on habit reconstruction
Weekly plans and accountability systems
3
Growth Program
24 sessions for deep emotional healing
Addressing root causes and building lasting change
4
Intensive Program
8 sessions over 4 weeks for immediate intervention
Trauma-informed, shame-free approach
All programs include mindset resets, structural support, and personalized recovery planning.
Who It's For
Meet "Jake"
  • High-performer in tech, finance, or startups (age 18-55)
  • Driven, intelligent, and outwardly successful
  • Privately struggling with digital escapism patterns
  • Exhausted from maintaining the façade
  • Wants to reclaim control, focus, and self-respect
"Jake isn't broken. He's just exhausted from doing it all alone."
Why This Matters
Freedom
Breaking free from compulsive digital patterns that control your life
Focus
Reclaiming your attention and directing it toward what truly matters
Clarity
Finding mental space and emotional peace through structured recovery
"This is about more than quitting habits. It's about reclaiming your life."
You Are Not Broken
"You're not broken. You just need a system that supports your healing."
Take the first step toward reclaiming your life today.
Book a Free Call
Schedule a confidential consultation to explore if RECLAIM is right for you
Learn More
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Reflection Prompt
What would your life look like with one hour less screen time each day?